Men are visual creatures, and that is how they express themselves sexually. They like to look at boobs. They like to watch porn. However, women are multi sensory. They experience sex with all of their senses. While a great set of abs does entice her visually, so does the sound of a man’s voice or the warmth of his touch. When she is attracted to him, his scent is stronger than other men’s scents. While men may not be inherently moved to incorporate a woman’s fragrance or the cadence of her speech into his sexual nature, it doesn’t mean he can’t consciously make the decision to do so. The Virtuoso Lover will teach you how. Here’s a quick review of the five senses, and how erotic each one can be.
We’ll start with this one just to get it out of the way. Men are already experts in getting turned on by what they can see, but you can take it even further. Really scan your lover’s body with your eyes. See how her body is different from other women’s. Maybe she has strong runner’s legs or perfectly olive skin. You will see her in a new light once you’ve really taken her in. I mean REALLY taken her in.
This can be a fun one. Give each other sensual massages with flavored oils, and then lick it off one another’s bodies. Blindfold her, and then feed her passion fruits or chocolate mousse. Buy a variety pack of flavored lip balms, and then guess the flavor every time you kiss her hello. Whatever it is, have fun with it.
Your sense of smell can be heightened during times of extreme arousal. Fill the room with warm, relaxing scents. Breathe in the smell of her skin when she’s under you. Once you know her smell, it will get you going every time you catch a whiff.
This one is easy: talk dirty. Whether you’re on the phone telling her what you’re going to do to her when you get home, or whispering sweet nothings in her ear, heighten the anticipation with verbal stimulation, just be seductive in the talk not pornographic (that is unless you know she likes it that way). Also, when you’re pleasuring her or railing her, listen to her moans and hear her reaction. Then you can be certain you’re doing it right. The more pornographic talk usually works good at this time.
This is the most sexually satisfying of all the senses. Run your hands all over each other’s bodies. Feel the warmth of her skin. Play a game where you touch each part of her body from head to toe, but never lose contact. Then enjoy the intense pleasure when you’ve felt her with all your senses.
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