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Wanting To Look At Women When They Dress Sexy, But Does She Want Me To? Voyeur at Heart

Dear Frank,
I can’t help but look at women when they dress so sexy. I mean like being downtown on a Saturday night when women are dressed hot (and very revealing) during the summers. Sometimes, women dress with very little on, leaving nothing to the imagination. Do women know that everything shows? Do they want me to be a Voyeur and just look at them? I mean, do they know when their breasts are in full view when they bend down, or that their bodies show right through some of the transparent clothes they wear? How do girls feel when boys check them out? Is it fun? If they don’t want to be stared at, then why do they dress up like that?
-Erect and Confused

Dear Erect,
It is not a question of IF she wants attention… if she dresses to get attention, then she wants attention. It is a question of WHAT kind of attention you give her. There are ways of looking at women that are complimentary and make her feel good about herself, and then there are ways to look at her that makes her feel unsafe and in danger of being attacked or mocked or insulted. As long as the way you give her attention addresses her emotional needs and does not violate her in any way, it is fine so enjoy the view.
-Frank, because I have to be

~Frank, because I have to be
Writer for SandiOnSwinging.com,
you can also visit him at www.franktalks.com where he talks more about being a voyeur and an exhibitionist. Or checkout his newest book Friends To Lovers Formula.

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