He just doesn’t understand why she would not like to be part of an Orgy.
Dear Frank, I am seeing a married woman who is cheating on her husband. I told her that my friend invited me to an orgy he was throwing with some of his married Swinger friends. I invited her along but she was appalled. She actually gave me a lecture about how married Swingers are the lowest form of people, and that if I dared go there, she would end our relationship. I got mad and yelled “Relationship, You mean how you come over here behind your husband’s back?” I then told her hypocritical adulteress ass to shut up. I do not get it. Wouldn’t she of all people want to go to an orgy?
Steve
Dear Steve, I have been in this exact situation in my younger days. Usually that type of reaction comes from jealousy. She is jealous that she has to run around behind her husband’s back instead of being able to do it with her husband knowing, like married Swingers do. The fact is, she did not want you to go to the orgy because in her mind, she did have a relationship with you, and you going there was a threat to that. Also, in her mind she is justified in having the affair with you because you are one person and she might see you as low risk for STDs that she could pass along to her husband. If you attend an orgy, she might catch something from you, and give it to her family. Finally, going to an orgy would make her cheating ways more public and that might not be safe for her. Chances are she will come back, but if she does not, affairs are time limited anyways.
~Frank, because I have to be
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