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Swinging vs Cheating

Dear Sandi, How do you justify swinging? Isn’t it more like you are cheating? Just Curious. Great question, but it’s a hard one for most people to comprehend. Ted and I (and many other swingers) believe that sex can be divided into 3 basic categories: fucking, having sex, and making love. Granted most swingers enjoy […]

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Getting Over a Jealous Lie

Can He Forgive Her? Dear Frank, I am in desperate need of some advice. This time yesterday I was the happiest and most content I’d ever been with anyone. I truly believed I’d found that special person, to me she was perfect in every way. Today I’m struggling to come to terms with the fact […]

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Jealousy And Swinging

He Watches Her Sex Tape and feel Threatened and Jealous Dear Frank, I recently found a sex tape of my girlfriend with her ex boyfriend. They made the tape when they were together. I was over at her place, woke up to find she had gone to run some errands, so I decided to watch […]

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How To Deal With Performance Jealousy In The Swinging Lifestyle

Welcome to one in a series of articles where I help you deal with the Jealousy you may end up feeling while you are involved in the Swinging Lifestyle. I have written each article to deal with one situation so that I can give you a complete solution to your problem so you can get […]

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