So, You Are Thinking Of Becoming A Swinger!
Being a swinger can be a wonderful experience or it can ruin your relationship. Let me quickly go through some of the things you need to know before you start.
Before you start swinging make sure you go through some ground rules with your partner first to be sure you are on the same page otherwise you could run into problems when things get down and dirty so to speak. You need to be clear about what you are both comfortable doing sexually with someone else otherwise you will surely run into problems.
Once you know what you are both comfortable with, then you are ready to set out and meet other swingers. This can be done through Swing clubs, swinger sites, private parties. The problem with private parties is that you really need to know some other swingers before you will get an invite to one.
Make sure to meet potential swinger partners somewhere social first before bringing them into your home or going over to their home. You cannot be too careful these days. Once you have met, I believe you should trust you instinct. If something seems off either discuss it with them or do not take things further. If, however, things seem to be working and there is an attraction, make plans to meet at your home, their home or a hotel. You should also discuss with them what rules you and your partner have so that they will not be surprised that you decided to be a soft swinger, or that you do not kiss with the other couple. All of that is fine as long as they know ahead of time. You should also find out what their likes and dislikes are, and if they also have any rules before any play starts.
Now your first date is over, relax and get ready for your second date. This is where the real fun starts. I hope you are ready for the time of your life, because being a swinger can be such a wonderful experience.
