Attracting A Woman

An absolute must when talking about seduction is touching (as in non-sexual physical contact). You must first establish a basic level of mutual attraction before you can successfully pickup a woman. In other words, before you can move onto kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first include a good amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of the ultimate in touching… sex. And that where many men fall short and risk scaring her away.

Often men just go for it and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact. Not realizing that doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that hes simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so whats the solution to this awkward problem?

Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girls (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’re a confident guy who is not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, lets take a look.

1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time its a clear-cut sign that you are a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try, you will notice the benefits immediately.

2. Once you have started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you find good looking, it’s important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called Stealth Tactility to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swiveling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.

3. Lastly, always try to finish off your conversation with a girl with some physical contact. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard works been done once somethings been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.

This is one example of some special psychological and social techniques you can use to attract and seduce women regardless of your looks, bank balance or the car you drive. It is just a little insight into the confusing minds of women.