I bet you just love to touch the ladies. Scratch that, you love to grope woman, at least that it how it appears to her. She is so soft and malleable and has these amazing thing called breasts! If it were up to you, you would grab and squeeze her breasts all day long. Settle down, it’s not as much fun for her when you man handle her delicate breasts. That’s not to say that she doesn’t like it when you touch her. In fact, she loves it when you touch her. She’s just wants it a bit gentler than you would think, at least in the beginning stages of her arousal, plus a little more variety would go a long way. Let me give you some ideas as to how to touch her that she will appreciate more than the booby-grab you love to do.
New Sensations for Your Partner
- Touch her as lightly as possible. This is also referred to as tickling, but I don’t want to give the impression that you should actually tickle her. Slowly run your finger tips all over her body. Barely touch her as you stroke her, and it will have all her nerve endings standing on end. You’re not limited to just your finger tips, you can use your lips, or even the head of your penis, for some added intimacy.
- Find household objects you can use to stroke her with. Feathers and silk are the obvious choice, but why not get creative. It’s less about what you use, than it is how you use it. It could be a cork from the bottle of wine you just opened, or a pen, or even a credit card.
- Playing with temperatures is fun too. Rub her down with an ice cube, just link in 9 1/2 Weeks. Whatever it is you use, if you oh-so-gently run it over her body, it becomes an erotic tool.
- Body Tracing is a good way to get to know your partner’s hot spots. With this it doesn’t matter what you stroke her with or how much pressure you use. The only rule is that you never lose contact. If you are tracing her collar bones, and you want to move down to her knees, you get their by running whatever you’re using to touch her with down the length of her body. She will be completely attuned to your touch with all her senses following you as you move, and you’re bound to find ticklish spots you never knew about before.
How ever you go about stimulating your partner through touch, communicating with her is key. Whether it’s paying attention to her responses or asking her outright, she is the only one who can let you know what she likes. Don’t be afraid to seek her guidance, the only consequence is pleasuring her! Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: The Virtuoso Lover
~ Michael Webb (Sex Expert)