We are not swingers, but we just found out our best friends are. Should we dump them?
Why? I mean why would you not stay friends with them? Nothing has changed within your relationship. They just like to have fun with other couples, which you are not interested in doing. No harm… no foul. They are not going to all of a sudden start to attack you and drag you into the bedroom for sex when you go over to visit. If you liked to go boating but they were afraid of the water or couldn’t swim, would you expect them to dump you? Of course not. Just let them have their fun and you have fun in your own way.
Hope this helps… Sandi