Finding a guy for a threesome. Wow, is this going to be easy for you. That is as long as you are not too picky. There are literally thousands of single guys looking to have sex every day so getting one to join you in your threesome should be pretty easy. Many of them live very close to you. It just can’t be too tough to narrow down the choices for you.
First off how to find a guy for a Threesome
You can go to a bar and pick one up. Now this may not be ideal, especially if you live in a small town and you do not want everyone to know what you are up to. You can go to another town or city and pick one up in a bar. Then go to a hotel for some fun.
Maybe bar hopping is just not for you. You can go online to any number of swingers websites. They usually have a good supply of males looking for a couple for a threesome. You can place your own ad or profile or answer some of the other member’s profiles. Contact is usually done through that website so you do not have to worry about your email address getting out, but I would still suggest that you get a free online email address, just to be safe.
Which is best, Married or Single Males?
Both have their benefits and problems.
Single men are out there dating a lot and therefore have a higher chance of having a STD. Now that is not to say that all single guys have an STD, far from it, just make sure he has been checked out before proceeding. This is actually good advice for any new sexual partner you may have. As a single man you may also run into the problem that he may try to steal your lady (which is statistically unlikely but possible). Now if your relationship is secure and you two communicate well then you shouldn’t have to worry about that.
Married men on the other hand are not looking for a new life partner they just want to have some fun. So you do not have to worry about them going after your lady. They are also very careful about STDs since that would be very hard to explain to the wife. Their schedule, however, will not be as flexible as a single man’s would be.
How to make sure he isn’t crazy before we meet
Now there is no sure fire way to weed out the crazies. They are a fact of life. I would suggest you email back and forth for a while first to get a feel for what he is like. Then talk on the phone a few times. Trust your instincts, if there seems to be something just not right about him… move on. There are more fish in the sea.
Where should we meet for the first time, before our Threesome?
I can’t stress this one enough… SOMEWHERE PUBLIC. You do not want to have him at your home or be alone with him at his place for the first time. You do not know this person. Meet for drinks or dinner somewhere get to know him a little better, and above all follow the advice above about trusting your instincts.
That should give you a good start in your quest to find a male to join you in your threesome. Once you find someone compatible I am sure you will have a great time, just relax and enjoy. Above all remember to have safe sex… no glove no love, that goes for every threesome you have.