Sandi Andersen
Performance Issues Causing Her To Want To Stop Swinging
My wife doesn’t want to swing anymore because the guys don’t seem to be able to get it up. What’s wrong with them?Signed, Confused & Frustrated Dear C&F, Believe it or not, that is a very common issue within the swinging community. I am glad you are thinking what is wrong with them, the only […]
Coping With The Anxiety Of Meeting A New Couple
How to cope with the anxiety of meeting a new couple and break the ice. For a lot of couples, meeting another couple in the lifestyle can be incredibly nerve wracking, whether you’re a newbie or already have some experience. And even though the intention of what you’re hoping to do are understood, it can […]
Swinging vs Cheating
Dear Sandi, How do you justify swinging? Isn’t it more like you are cheating? Just Curious. Great question, but it’s a hard one for most people to comprehend. Ted and I (and many other swingers) believe that sex can be divided into 3 basic categories: fucking, having sex, and making love. Granted most swingers enjoy […]
Swinger Tips For The Beginner
If you have been thinking about giving swinging a try, then there are a few things I feel you need to know first. Let me go through some of them with you before you get yourself into a situation where you are not comfortable. Some of the things you need to know as a new […]